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What are some things we can focus on as a couple to keep the marriage a we-centered marriage instead of a me-centered marriage? With four more children seen to the marriage altar in the months leading up to this message, Gil & Kelly share here as they would share with their own children some fairly simple ways of becoming one in spirit, soul and body, beginning with intentional effort in year one … and never stopping. ‘Me’ comes first pretty naturally. ‘We’ will require some learning and growing! But that’s what God wants for His glory! That is the goal for which He will provide the much-needed grace to keep up the godly, guiltless romance and excitement He designed there to be in the nucleus of the family.
Thank you so much, Mr. and Mrs. Bates, for sharing your stories and this helpful message for married couples. I feel truly blessed and encouraged having found and watched your practical truths this afternoon. May God continue to bless your beautiful marriage!