What is meant by “fight for the relationship”? ATI father Wayne Fagala explains to Bob Newhouse his testimony of learning how to show genuine love to his children. When there are difficulties, parents are to be as Jacob when he wrestled the Lord rather than simply giving up. We need to fight for good relationships with our children, realizing the enemy is an accuser and seeking to divide families. Wayne’s other key point is about turning the hearts of his children to hearing Jesus’ voice more as they mature─and his voice diminishes.