What happened at Ziklag can happen to husbands today. Noble men wanting to connect and lead may feel suddenly betrayed or caught off guard. But this is the time for one with noble identity to unsheathe his secret weapon: "but David encouraged himself in the Lord his God".
Couples such as Chris and Anne often marry with long range vision already in place. The marriage however will still take time to grow. Disappointment and broken expectations will challenge those hopes and dreams.