Well, it's time to make a plan. Pick one of the five areas: Person, Provider, Partner, Parent, or Proclaimer and do the things God has led you to do. Knowing what (who) your true treasures are, plan how to match needs with skills and resources. Strive for clarity. Establish accountability.
God has put in the hearts of men to be noble instead of normal. Rather than withdrawing, we are called to be involved in the battles of the day. Being involved however encompasses much more than "I came, I saw, I conquered" for that too only ends up in isolation and withdrawal.